Sunday, September 4, 2011

Boundaries with Friends, Eh?

Oh, God, I called a friend who lives in Texas, and she said it was 10:30pm, and she was sleeping and what I wouldn't give to be asleep by fucking even 10pm!!!!


If she has all this pain from her RSD how in the name of blue fuck did she get to sleep by fucking  10pm, and where the hell do I get some????

But really, she does more freaking drama than anyone I know!!!!!  And why?

Because we freaking tolerate it!!!!!!


We put into it when she calls and cries about her son, and he's got a "deadly illness"

Prior to the development of antibiotics, mortality for Ludwig's angina exceeded 50%.[3] As a result of antibiotic therapy, along with improved imaging modalities and surgical techniques, mortality currently averages approximately 8%.[3,53]


The majority of cases of Ludwig's angina occur in healthy patients with no comorbid diseases.[3] Nevertheless, there are several conditions that have been shown to predispose patients to Ludwig's angina. These conditions include diabetes mellitus, alcoholism, acute glomerulonephritis, systemic lupus erythematosus, aplastic anemia, neutropenia, and dermatomyositis.[3,54]


She was crying to me that this was so deadly and he was about   to drop dead and how how awful his bosses were, forcing him to go to work, forcing him to go right out of the ER!!!  How dare they?!?!?! 


I am done, and I am sick of it.....How dare she take advantantage of a kindness that she knew would be there?!

Because she knew it would be!!!!!!!!!!

You want to say those are the people who should rot in hell....

I disagreee.

They are already there.

They need:

pity

caring
kindness
compassion
love
giving (but don't be a sucker!!!!)


I really do feel sorry for her, but not in that  way........she doesn't need material wealth

I hope God brings her some peace................................................  only then will she begin to emerge from her self-imposed prison, and learn what it is to give....

I pray that she finds it without too much pain.........

But when people like her are found in our midst; we know that they are in pain, and we learn that hurt has come their way......But this page is tabbed as my home page for a reason..but read the quote first:

Today, there is increasing recognition, as well as a growing body of scientific evidence, that confirms the close connection between our own states of mind and our happiness. On the one hand, many of us live in societies that are very developed materially, yet among us are many people who are not very happy. Just underneath the beautiful surface of affluence there is a kind of mental unrest, leading to frustration, unnecessary quarrels, reliance on drugs or alcohol, and in the worst case, suicide. There is no guarantee that wealth alone can give you the joy or fulfilment that you seek. The same can be said of your friends too. When you are in an intense state of anger or hatred, even a very close friend appears to you as somehow frosty, or cold, distant, and annoying.
The Dalai Lama

December 31, 2010
Originally published in the Hindustan Times, India, on January 3rd, 2011


I am learning where I start, and where  I also stop.

It's called boundries. I think it is safe to say we have all had a serious lack of them!!!!!!

This woman would not know how to gracefully thank someone for them if it smacked her in the face!!!!!!!   I love vanilla, and hazel.....

Big on scents, no--not so much with the RSD.

I am comfortabable enough with it that if someone started stick about it, whenn all is said and and done, I'm probably gonna have some cheese on me.  Well, not wild about the processedd stuff, but ok, I can deal with it anyhow,  and I lick it off, and done deal....next time remember I have hazel eyes, goof ball!!!!!

I think we've been at it enough.

But the basic  thing is a serious lack of boundaries; and self-confidence to say that I think she is full of it.

Eh?

 
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