You know, it seems we
have some self-appointed people here who are decideding they have
nothing to do with your time rather than stand in pass judgement on
the rest of us.
To decide who it's
okay for some of us to be "friends" with and who it's not.
To put up very telling comments on articles .....Telling about YOU,
not the author....Grow up, girls.
For those of you who don't like
an article, or hate the author....don't
read it!!!
You blame me for
making this community what it is...if it's a look in the trash can,
rather than perhaps a look in the mirror is in order.....
This was
once upon a time a "support network," but
a few, immature,
self-appointed mediators
have turned it into a place where no one knows who to trust, where no
one knows who they are "allowed" to be friends with, and
are deccimating their lists because you--you know exactly
who
you are--have taken it upon yourselves to decide what this site and
what is not.
People don't want to
hang out here anymore~~
It's become a
stressor, not a helper, no longer a support. You have your cliquish
little communities, and perfectly innocent people are falling victim
to your nastiness, falling victim to your hideous games. People have
specifically told me that you are setting "the fear of God"
into them just about, and that was why I was removed from their
friends' list-->they no longer knew I had anything to do with w=a
! Not because of me!!! Or anything I have done....
I used to enjoy site
messages. Then grew to dread them and never know what friends are
going to say to me because of something fed to them by 2 nasty old
bitties with nothing better to do would have to say or doll
A word of advice:
Get a cat~if it would
put up with you and not pee on the floor, in your houseplants, or on
you.
Buy a houseplant
if you can keep it alive.....
Get that thing called
a life unless you've chased everyone else away.
I'm grateful to say I
have friends beyond this place, despite what you think of me or
not...My page was private, yet someone who should have no access
seems to know I am finding "healing in my journals." How
would you know unless you have people doing your dirty work you
aren't woman enough to do yourself.
And V2, for someone
who said they swore off leaving me alone, you have a lot to say about
what a write in my own thoughts; and in my articles. I'd hardly call
that leaving me alone.
So I leave YOU--go
404 as they say by choice and at peace with it; I got a nice gift
from my brother, and so much from my friends. Much to look forward to
with my family and my doctors and this thing called hope.
But no thanks to you.
I found it inside
myself.
P4P is not the only
“support site” out there; and to think so would be arrogance
typical of the main self-appointed moderators that have turned this
formerly decent site into warring factions where people are
apparently afraid to even have certain people listed on their
“friend's” list,
rather than deal with the 'fallout' of exercising their right to what
is listed in the Bill of Rights as “The Right to Free Speech-on
a website where I am supposed to at least be able
to speak my mind!!!!
If we think P4P is
the only “support site....” it would be like saying we are the
only ones who have RSD/CRPS if our...
But in terms of that,
the arrogance of the two-facedness in the infants
who are so publicly cat-fighting are only dragging P4P
down with themselves and through the mud, while claiming to “love
this site.” If they did, they would go 404 and never
return...that
is the only way to make it look better now.
I left because of
fever-pitch of drama...and my health couldn't take it!
But it has caused me
to realize these sites are a dime a dozen, much all the same.
Personality
Disordered, and drama run rampant, and the people I grew up made my
life hell.
Not responding drives
them crazy. That is how I respond now; and it drives them over the
moon......and when you've got their number, that too, also makes them
more insane than they already are.....
When the drama
presents itself—and that is what these two are up to with
practically sitting at the computer, posting to make everyone up in a
tizzy with their stupid posts. Then, not being woman enough to leave
up the original post that made the whole problem in the first place,
and pulling them down—that's right, not woman
enough!!!
Not responding drives
them crazy. That is how I respond now; and it drives them over the
moon......and when you've got their number, that too, also makes them
more insane than they already are.....
When the drama
presents itself—and that is what these two are up to with
practically sitting at the computer, posting to make everyone up in a
tizzy with their stupid posts. Then, not being woman enough to leave
up the original post that made the whole problem in the first
place, and pulling
them down—that's right, not woman
enough!!!
Girls, you are
in the “big girls” sandbox, whether or not you deserve to be.
Grow up and act like you at least belong there.
Don't worry about me
coming back under “Jenna McK” or any name; I am adult enough to
come back for any of this stupid backbiting and stupid childish
games—why would I open another
account here—let alone under multiple
accounts as some have done—despite your crap, I have
managed to make a few friends along the way.
Let us be clear on
one thing; no-make that two: I did not go “404” because anything
yo have done—save the volume of drama; you certainly don't deserve
credit for that
But wait and be clear
on this:
• You need to get
some help~right quick before you or someone else gets hurt:
physically or
emotionionally........
• Personality
disorders are to be taken seriously:
◦ Cluster B
Personality Disorders
Antisocial
Personality Disorder is
more commonly diagnosed
amongst
men. They
are at higher risk for anxiety disorders, substance abuse,
somatization disorders, and
pathological gambling.
Borderline
Personality Disorder
is
associated with a risk for substance
abuse, eating
disorders (especially bulemia), and PTSD. Suicide is completed in
8-10%
of patients with BPD (far higher than most mental health disorders).
Histrionic
Personality Disorder is
associated mostly with somatoform disorders.
Narcissistic
Personality Disorder
is
at high risk for anorexia and bulemia......as
well as depression
The
most current literature shows thats that people, particularly with
BPD, HPD, and NPD, in attempts to shine the lights on themselves will
show up on the online sites with “horrifying medical histories to
shine the lights on themselves....and tell stories of “courage and
dignity” in the faces of what often woud have spelled death for
most~~tests of true courage in the faces of death for anyone else.
And
these are often the ones that start the battles...and they may win
that battle, but they lose the war. They are pretty much on the
phone with each other....waiting to post, and then to pull their
respective posts......
You
have to watch your back for these types.......................
A
word to the wise....I grew up with one.
And I
was the one making P4P look bad?????
I
recall someone making a look at “the man/WOMAN in the mirror.....”
Boooooo
hooooooo!!!!!!!'
Now wouldn't
that suck if our self-appointed moderators good hard at themselves?
I am
totally done with online websites: they have different names; sites;
but it's all the same in the long run: you're stuck with the same
backbiting and BS, passive-aggressive crap you started out with......
NUTS, is
just plain nuts. Especially when your doc is threatening you with
hospitalization because you just feel like you have to keep
responding to the constant barrage of 30+ emails in your
inbox~curiousity killed the cat(fighting) you have to remind
youself.
At least
my doc is threatening with medical hospitalization....not
psychiatric!
