Why Must We Be So Ugly to Each other? Especially Family!!!!

I got this email from a family member:

"You are about as understanding as to what is going on in my life as a fence post…..yet I am always trying to help you and find a ways to help you….when do you give back as much as some compassion for me ?"

From my mother.

I know she is borderline--and I could post links....but what's the fucking point???  It doesn't change anything.  Not her, not her future behavior.  And I will bet you twenty and raise you fifty     that she calls me today and acts as if nothing ever happened-like the email for one.  Oh, I will save it.  Maybe someday she'll get some DBT or at least some counseling, and I will fucking ram it down her throat along with the DVD's of every visit of her each and every time she comes.  Here was my reply:

I apologize for (again) offending you--it is not intentional.

You tell me not to compare me to Lisa or Paul, when it comes to him (well, maybe not Paul anyhow);

I refuse to carry on a discussion of how you believe the chasm of difference between how I treat you versus Dad-this is my first (and last) request for you to stop drawing me into conversations about how you feel I treat Dad versus how I treat you.....

So, I am sorry I even told you about the discussion I was having with him, so let's just drop it. I refuse to discuss it any further from this point on. Any future emails will be deleted, and conversations will be dropped. It's betweem he and I anyhow.

I am so fucking sick and tired of her shit.  I am tired of her "I don't like how you treat me." 
For fuck's sake, you could treat her like the Queen of England, and she would bitch and moan that the caviar was not high grade enough.


I am fucking sick to death of it!!!!